If you are a regular reader of our articles you probably already know that apparent clinginess is rarely conducive to turning your date into your girlfriend. However allow us to elaborate on the why of it just a tad to explain its importance in getting a girlfriend

Most girls do not find men who try to be with them all the time attractive. Indeed, persistence in this respect significantly lessens your chances of getting a girlfriend in how it seems clingy or desperate in a most unmanly fashion. This is the first and foremost reason for why you should be careful not to spend too much time with her, but far from the only one.

Not only do you want to seem independent, fun-loving and active, but you also want her to feel as if she has to work for spending time with you. Suffice it to say that being available whenever she needs you will give her control over your relationship, which in turn will make her expect greater efforts on your part before she agrees to be your girlfriend. If on the other hand you make it clear that she is but one of your priorities the scales will be more balanced, thus forcing her to try harder to keep you interested.

Finally you want her to want you around. While spending time with her indeed is required for this, balancing the time you do allow for the two of you together with time apart during which she has plenty of time to think of you is crucial to this point. It is while you are not there that she will think or even fantasize about you, and of all things that might work in favor of the two of you this is what will truly make her want to become your girlfriend.

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