Seeking the perfect match has been compared to a wild goose chase at its worst, though that is not to say that it is an excuse for the naïve or those inept at seduction. Pickiness in choosing your partner is quite the contrary an amiable trait that is more likely to satisfy you romantically than is leaving coupling up to chance.

The first step to finding what you want is to know exactly what it is you are looking for. Define the perfect girlfriend. Think her through in terms of looks, personality, interests, style of dress and etcetera to whatever level of detail you want. However do emphasize internal qualities over looks and external details. While physical attraction is necessary in a relationship, you are likely to be more flexible in this department than you are in terms of personality compatibility.

Once you have established your search criteria, get out and about so as to meet people. Hobbies and social activities are great both for getting together with existing friends and for meeting new people. Try in particular to get to know more women, as regardless of whether you are interested in pursuing a relationship with them or not you will have a greater range of candidates to compare to your profile. As you do, do not forget to be open-minded. It is unreasonable to expect that you will find someone who corresponds exactly to what you would like in a girlfriend.

Yet there is a fine line between accepting a compromise and settling for what is available. Do not expect results straight away, and do not ask someone out just because you think they will do if you feel that she is not what you are after. When you do find a prospective mate, try to get to know her better first. If it still fits go ahead and ask her out, though be prepared to continue your search if the answer is no. After all for her to truly be miss right she must also be interested in you.

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