Attractive women are often approached by men. It’s a fact of life. If you’ve seen the most beautiful woman in the world, chances are that hundreds of men have seen her before you and hundreds more will see her afterward. So the question is, how can you get her to see you, instead of those hundreds of other men?

You need to avoid the mistakes that average men make,in order to avoid being lumped into the same category as every other guy. Once you know what mistakes over men make, you can avoid falling into the same traps that have her turning away again and again.

Five of the biggest mistakes that men make are as follows;

Mistake #1: Believing that attractive women are unapproachable.

  • average men always think that attractive women are out of league. When you begin to think about how inredibly beautiful or amazing she is, you may put too much pressure on yourself to rise to the occasion. This can cause you to feel inferior and think that she wouldn’t give you the time of day, even if you were able to make the perfect approach. The more you think about rejection,  the more likely you are to not make an approach at all due to fear and anxiety.
  • The only way to avoid this is to make an active choice to not let it affect you. If you see an attractive woman and want to approach her, don’t think about whether or not you have a chance to date her. Just go up to her and talk. The worst thing that can happen is that she will reject your advances. It may be a little embarrassing, but it won’t cost you your life. Never let fear get a hold of you or you’ll never take the risks that need to be taken to receive the rewards you know you deserve.

Mistake #2: Staring at the attractive woman for extended periods of time.

  • This actually plays into the first mistake. The longer that you sit and stare at her from across the room, the more that you will question whether or not you have a chance with her. In addition to that, if she catches you staring at her for too long, she will begin to feel uncomfortable. Even if she doesn’t call the cops on you, she will definitely be questioning your motives.
  • You avoid this one the same way that you avoid mistake #1. Just go up and talk to her. Don’t sit there and stare. What good is staring doing you? Really?

Mistake #3: Complimenting a woman on her physical appearance.

  • Attractive women are approached by lots of men and must have heard lots of compliments about how beautiful they are. After all, that’s generally what a man notices when he sees a woman from across the room. If you begin your conversation by complimenting her physical appearence she will lump you into the same category as every other man that came before you.
  • If you want to give her a compliment, try complimenting her in a way that most men wouldn’t think of. Since you know she has already received many compliments from men, start conversation with her by giving negative statement, like “Don’t think that you will get special treatment from me, just because you are gorgeous.” This is a technique call pattern interrupt. You have interrupted the normal pattern she expects from men, making your approach more memorable than the average guy.

Mistake #4: Being afraid to approach a woman when there are men in the group.

  • Most men feel intimidated when an attractive woman is in a group that includes one or more men. The most common belief is that one of the men in the group must be her boyfriend. When an attractive woman is in a group of people with at least one man in it, most men will fall back into mistake #1 again and end up talking themselves out of ever approaching.
  • You will never know if she has a boyfriend, whether he’s currently in the group or not, until you approach and talk to her. There is always the possibility that she is with a group of friends, coworkers, or even family members. She might not even have a boyfriend at all. If she does have a boyfriend, you can always leave her alone after your initial approach. It is polite to apologize to her, and him if he’s present, for the disturbance, but don’t be too hard on yourself if this happens. At least you give yourself a chance.

Mistake #5: Waiting for her to part with the group.

  • Waiting for a woman to leave her group of friends is always a bad idea. You will never know when she’s going to leave the group and if you keep waiting you might miss your chance. On top of that, waiting gives you too much time to fall back on mistakes #1 and #2. Also, women are more comfortable in a group of people. If she came with a group of friends and you corner her when she steps away from them for a couple of seconds, she will feel nervous and intimidated. This will decrease the likelihood of having her agree to a date.
  • I’m not sure if you’ve noticed the recurring theme here, but you have to go up and talk to her. Don’t wait. Just go up and say hi. This one can be a little more embarrassing if she rejects your advances, due to the group of witnesses, but it’s okay. Keep in mind that you probably won’t see any of them again if she says no, so it doesn’t really matter what they think.

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