Flirting is one of the most important things that men do to get girls to like them. Successful flirting will show off your wit and humor, as well as showing women that you are more interesting than other men. If you are able to flirt successfully, you will stand out in her memory, making it more likely that she will want to be your girlfriend.

Most men waste many opportunities to flirt, putting themselves at a disadvantage when looking for a girlfriend or trying to get girls to like them. Recognizing opportunities to flirt and taking advantage of them will give you the advantage that those men are missing.

  • When a woman compliments you, it is a common reaction to thank them for the compliment and return one in kind. This, however, is such a standard response that it does nothing to further their interest in you. Instead, use the opportunity to secure yourself in their memory by using a pattern interrupt. If a woman tells you that you look great, you could say something like, “I know. I’d ask to hold your hand, but you might get burned, because I am so hot tonight.” If said in a playful, teasing way this will open up the conversation further, rather than sounding conceited.
  • During a general conversation, many women will talk about something they don’t want to be. For example, a very adventurous woman may say something like, “I considered going to the museum, but I thought it would be too boring.” Take this opportunity to tease her gently about being so adventurous, by commenting that she is the opposite. Using the example above you could say something like, “What? I thought you were all about boring stuff like that. I was going to ask you over to my place to watch paint dry, but I guess I’ll have to come up with a new date idea now.”
  • Don’t forget to use touch when flirting. Flirting is the best way to increase her comfort level with your touch. When you’re walking together, you could gently poke her in the side and then look guilty in a funny way, such as obviously looking in the opposite direction quickly, or whistling conspicuously. Then chuckle and try to poke her again. She’ll move away and you can turn it into a game of tag.

The important thing to remember when flirting with a woman is to keep track of her subconscious response signals. If she seems comfortable with what you are doing and begins to tease and flirt back, then you are doing a good job.

If she shuts down and responds negatively, think about what you may have done to make her uncomfortable and apologize. Explain that you were just trying to flirt and let her know that you won’t do that specific thing again. Then try flirting in a way that she will be more comfortable with.

When you begin to recognize and use opportunities to flirt, you will increase the likelihood of getting a girl’s number, getting her to like you, and having her as your girlfriend.

Further Reading

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